Category Archives: Please and Thank You’s Go a Long Way

Professionalism is too often Lacking in New College Grads, Employers Say

Here’s a little article from newsletters that college career counselors read…
Thought you might like to know what is going onnnnn.

Employers are looking for more professionalism from the college students and recent grads they hire for internships and entry-level jobs, according to the 2010 Professionalism in the Workplace Poll conducted by the Center for Professional Excellence at York College in Pennsylvania.

The study questioned more than 400 business leaders and human resources executives across the United States. Its key finding: 38.2% of the respondents said that less than half of all new college graduates demonstrate professionalism in the workplace.
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Life After Middlebury: Top 10 Advice from Beyond

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By Dave Campbell ’09

Career Services recently held a panel discussion for graduating seniors about “Establishing Yourself as a Professional”.  They asked me to share my perspective as a recent Middlebury grad.  As I thought about the lessons I have learned and the best way to share them, I came up with a Top-10 List for Middlebury’s newest group of graduates.

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Etiquette Tip of the Week: Where it All Begins

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By Culture and Manners Institute

Too many people think an interview or sales call begins when you meet the interviewer or client.  Your interview begins with the security guards when you enter the building.  Kill with kindness any security personnel and administrative professionals you meet along the way.  They are all part of your interview process.  Be upbeat, pleasant and make eye contact with everyone you meet on your way in and out.

Etiquette Tip of the Week: Take Charge

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By Culture and Manners Institute

Your attire has the first word in any business meeting.  If you want to command authority, wear a suit with a jacket or wear a blazer.  This goes for women as well as men.  If a cute sweater set or a man’s sweater vest could talk, it would not say, “I am in charge.” (It would say, “What would you like from the deli?”)

If you have a casual office environment, wear a jacket or blazer when you have important meetings.  If you are the company spokesperson, have an emergency jacket or blazer in your office in case you need to go before the media in an emergency.

How to Make an Email Introduction to a Speaker you Heard in a Class or at an Event

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By Gottamentor

How do you follow-up with those guest lecturers who have great industry experience or the speakers you heard at an event? Whether you had the chance to speak to them at the time or not, the likelihood of getting a response to an email is very high. Why? You will probably be the only person who reaches out to them. The majority of people who rush a speaker at the end of an event and ask for a business card never follow up. This is a big mistake because these individuals have two assets you do not, a lot of relevant experience and knowledge, and relationships that could open doors for you.

Below are examples of an email introduction to a speaker you heard in class or at an event; one is weak, one is great:

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After the Interview: How to Write an Effective Interview Thank You Note

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By Andrea Rice

Anatomy of a Thank You Note

Keep 3 things in mind when you write your thank you note. It should be immediate, short, and specific.

  1. Immediate – Get the note written and out the door within 24 hours. Make sure you ask for their contact information during the interview so you’re not scrambling trying to figure out their email or snail mail address.
  2. Short – This should be a quick expression of gratitude and interest. 3-4 sentences should be fine.
  3. Specific – Your note should reference something specific you discussed or took away from the interview.  You can also reinforce your skill set as a good match for the job requirements.

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Etiquette Tip of the Week: Waiting Room Shocker

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By Culture and Manners Institute

There is one story that, when I tell it in a university setting, I can see the whites around the eyes of the students.

A woman approached me after a talk in Oklahoma and said, “I am the receptionist in my office. The hiring manager has asked me to keep an eye on the job candidates in the waiting room and report back to him which ones are talking on their cell phones, checking messages or texting. Those are the candidates we do not hire.

Avoid using your cell phone or text messaging while sitting in the waiting room before an interview or even a sales call (which is in itself, an interview).

Take out a notebook and study your notes (for surely you have done your research on this company — their leadership, mission statement, sales figures, etc.) Go over the answers to tricky questions in your head. Even if you usually review notes on your phone or PDA, use something else so you don’t appear to be checking messages. Leave the impression that you are focused on the business at hand and not distracted by other things in your life.

Etiquette Tip of the Week: After the Beep

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By Culture and Manners Institute

Ever get one of those voice mail messages where you couldn’t quite make out what the caller was saying?  The person could have been mumbling or talking like his house was on fire.  Perhaps the person was calling in from out where the elephants go to die and cell service was a little spotty.

When leaving a voice mail message, speak clearly with a smile in your voice.  State your name, company and phone number at the beginning of the message and repeat your name and phone number at the end of the message.  Say the phone number slowly each time, as if you are standing in front of the person who is writing it down.  That way, the person listening to the voice mail message does not have to keep replaying the message to take down your information.  Or if the number was hard to understand at the beginning of the message, the repeat number will confirm it.

Etiquette Tip of the Week: Business Card Protocol

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By Culture and Manners Institute

A business card is a representation of the person, so show it respect. Do not write on a business card in front of the person who just handed it to you. When you accept a business card, look at it for a moment.  If you like the card, compliment the person on the business card.  Present your business card with your name facing the person.  Do not cover the business name with your finger or thumb. 

When working with people from other cultures, learn their business card protocol.  In China, present and receive business cards with two hands. Spend at least a minute or two looking at the card, as a sign of respect.  In areas of the Middle East and Africa, present and receive business cards with the right hand only.