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Homecoming ’13 Highlights

Slide Show from Homecoming:

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Watch President Liebowitz’s talk to alumni about recent developments at the College. 

Hundreds of alumni returned to campus during Homecoming 2013 to participate in events, enjoy a thrilling Middlebury football game, and reconnect with the College on a cool and breezy autumn weekend.

Among the festivities were receptions for alumni and guests; planning sessions for reunion classes; an open house at 118 South Main Street where creativity and innovation, community engagement, social entrepreneurship, and MiddCORE are at the fore; an arts discussion between Professor Jay Parini and PBS journalist Jeffrey Brown; and student and alumni panel discussions.

On Saturday morning President Ron Liebowitz updated alumni about how Middlebury is defining a liberal arts education for the 21st century. There were alumni leadership workshops, film screenings, a new storytelling event called “Cocoon,” and open houses at the Organic Farm and 2011 Solar Decathlon House. Also in abundance was music — jazz, a capella, and chamber music performances all weekend-long, capped off by dancing into the wee hours at the Black Pearl Ball in Coltrane Lounge.

At the opening reception for the new Squash Center, President Liebowitz said the spectacular, nine-court facility – and the new Field House under construction – are the first buildings in the history of the College to be fully funded by donors.  “We started this project and said it would not go forward until we had commitments in hand — $46 million for the field house and squash center combined — so thank you to all the donors. We did that without financing, without loans, and we’re very proud of that.”

With an audience of about 150 people on hand for Squash Center reception, the president also thanked the parents of current and former squash players for coming to the event. “It’s wonderful to see this building completed,” he said enthusiastically, “and it is exciting to conceive of how it will be used in the future.”

Homecoming would not be complete without a football game, and the 2013 contest against Trinity College did not disappoint. Under partly cloudy skies with nearly 2,000 fans in Alumni Stadium, the lead exchanged hands six times before Middlebury went out in front, 27-24, with a minute left to play. Trinity threated to score again, but the Panther “D” held firm, thus ending the visitors’ 14-game winning streak and giving Middlebury (5-1) a share of first place in the conference.

Sunday’s activities included brunch at Carr Hall, an open house at the Snow Bowl, and a Halloween family event at the Mahaney Center for the Arts, as Middlebury bid adieu to its alumni and friends.

With principal photography by Todd Balfour, photography at Bread Loaf by Jennifer Kiewit, and reporting by Robert Keren

When Mom Stops Calling

Professor Barbara Hofer talked about "iconnected parents" during Homecoming Weekend

Just a few years ago, psychology professor Barbara Hofer noticed something different among her first-year students. On any given day, as soon as class was over, they would flip open their cell phones and make a call. She noticed that even the seniors on campus were startled by how readily first-years used their phones.

Curious about this new behavior, she conducted some research and soon discovered that a “sweeping cultural change” was taking place. Not only were students heavily connected to each other by cell, they were also heavily connected to their parents. The amount of contact between young people and their parents had increased exponentially. “It happened over night,” she said, and it seemed to be pervasive. She was alarmed about some of the ramifications.

Hofer’s findings launched more research, in collaboration with undergraduates; a coauthored book on the subject; and many appearances around the country. During Homecoming Weekend, she described her work to an enthralled group of alumni, many who remembered how they used to call home—from dorm pay phones.

Hofer’s findings show that there is an “electronic tether” connecting young people with their parents in a profoundly new way. Whereas a generation ago, students thought of themselves as adult and independent and they called home perhaps once a week, today’s students and parents communicate approximately 13 times weekly, each initiating about half the calls.

“Parents report that they are a lot closer to their kids than they were to their parents,” Hofer said. She pointed out that the amount and the content of the communication is very important in helping students gain autonomy. “The challenge is to remain connected in a healthy way.”

What concerns Hofer is that the electronic tether tends to create a dependency that prevents students from learning to regulate their own behavior or to handle their own disappointments and challenges. Instead of figuring out how to deal with a problem, they can be in touch with a caring parent almost instantly. This level of contact also prevents some parents from developing the skills and responses that would bolster independence.

Hofer described cases in which parents regulate their children’s activities from afar, keeping their course syllabi and reminding them of papers and tests, for example, or editing their papers. She described one student’s answer to this question: “When will you know you are an adult?” The answer: “When my mom stops calling me three times a day.”

But Hofer was quick to point out that this does not mean that parents should simply “let go,” as is sometimes suggested. What parents need, she believes, is to find healthy ways to back off a bit while staying connected, a thoughtful balance that encourages students to use their own internal resources and the resources of the institution.

Or, perhaps, it will suffice to simply turn the phone off.


Homecoming: Not Just for Sports Fans

Hundreds of Middlebury alumni returned to campus for Homecoming, Oct. 28-30, to enjoy athletic and cultural events, and to reminisce with friends amid spectacular fall weather of sunshine, brisk winds, and occasional snow flurries.

While the weekend’s largest crowds assembled for the football game and at the tailgate parties outside Alumni Stadium before, during, and after the gridiron event, there also were lectures, panel discussions, theatrical performances, concerts, alumni games, receptions, films, and celebrations for alumni to savor.

Homecoming kicked off on Friday with a talk delivered by Patrick Dougherty, the artist who led the community in the creation of “So Inclined,” the stick sculpture that has graced the front entrance to the Mahaney Center for the Arts since the fall of 2007.

Patrick Dougherty

Since the sculpture is coming down this week, Dougherty was invited back to campus to reflect on the meaning of his work both at Middlebury and around the world. The creator of more than 200 commissioned pieces in the U.S., Japan, France, Denmark, Austria, and the U.K., Dougherty said, “A good sculpture is one that causes a lot of personal associations in the viewer, a lot of starting points in your own personal life trying to understand it. And, as a sculptor, I am not only thinking about making the surface interesting and making it fit into the site. I also think a sculpture has to have enough power and grace to evoke a visceral response.”

Judging from the enthusiastic audience and their approving remarks—Richard Saunders, the director of the Museum of Art, termed it the “most beloved” piece of outdoor art at Middlebury—there is little doubt that Dougherty achieved his goals at Middlebury.

Unwilling brides (l. to r.) Meghan Leathers '13.5, Mari Vial-Golden '14, and Lucy Van Atta '12

Friday’s events also included a career panel discussion cosponsored by Distinguished Men of Color and the Center for Education in Action, Shabbat services with Hillel, two screenings of the final Harry Potter film, and the theatre department’s season opener, the Charles Mee’s comedy “Big Love” directed by Assistant Professor Cláudio Medeiros ’90, in Wright Memorial Theatre.

The cast of students gave four rousing performances over the weekend, and the show was well attended with more than 800 people in the seats for a story about Greek brides unwillingly betrothed to their American cousins. The action, including the grooms’ sudden arrival by helicopter to the “Mission Impossible” theme, transported theatre-goers to a lavish villa in southern Italy.

There was no shortage of action in the alumni game. Here's Mike Stone '09 dashing in for a shot on net.

Saturday’s early risers took part in the Peter Westra ’99 Memorial 5K Run or the men’s alumni lacrosse game, both of which started at 9 a.m., followed by Professor Barbara Hofer’s lecture in Davis Library about parental communication with college-age children in the age of e-mail, cell phones, text messaging, and social media.

Middlebury’s women water polo players, including three alumnae, assembled in the Natatorium on Saturday morning for a preseason tournament against Dartmouth College and the Club Aquatique Montreal. While the Montreal club was delayed temporarily at the Vermont border, Middlebury swam against Dartmouth in the opening match, and after the Big Green scored two quick goals, the Middlebury women splashed their way back to score as well.

Lee Corbett '07 (center) is a grad student at Dartmouth, but she swam with the Middlebury club, including Divya Dethier (left).

Since women’s water polo is a spring sport, the round-robin tournament gave all three teams the opportunity to play against real competition. Brian Goodwin, the longtime Middlebury water polo coach, tried players at different positions and experimented with strategy. And in keeping with the spirit of friendly competition, the visitors from Montreal spent the night at Goodwin’s house in Williston before returning to Middlebury for more water polo action on Sunday.

Meanwhile on Saturday, the Panther football team was enduring a long afternoon on the turf of Youngman Field against the undefeated Bantams from Trinity College. (Final score: Trinity 42, Middlebury 7.) With more than 1,500 spectators in attendance, the members of the vaunted 7-1 team from 1981—including then-coach Mickey Heinecken and the current coach, Bob Ritter ’82—were honored at halftime.

The beloved Peter Kohn was remembered by alumni at the football game.

Homecoming Saturday started out sunny and (almost) warm, but by the second half of the football game the skies were socked in and the Panther faithful huddled together in hats, gloves, and scarves. Later in the afternoon alumni found refuge indoors while anthropologist James Fitzsimmons, an assistant professor, presented an illustrated lecture on “Power and Authority in the Classic Maya Lowlands”; the Hirschfield International Film Series presented “Vincere” in Dana Auditorium; and men’s and women’s lacrosse alumni celebrated more than 60 years of the sport at the College with a reception and dinner.

The Middlebury Women of Color sponsored an early-evening get-together for students and alumni, and also hosted the Black Pearl Ball, featuring a DJ from New York City, with dancing into the wee hours at Coltrane Lounge. Alumni night owls had other events to choose from too including a performance by jazz violinist Zach Brock at 51 Main and the Homecoming Formal Dance at Nelson Arena.

Sunday morning’s activities included a celebration of Middlebury women’s tennis, with a round-robin tournament and luncheon in honor of the late Barbara (“Bobbie”) Plumer Galligan Alden ’40; and a Homecoming Brunch at PALANA House sponsored by the Women of Color.

Erin Quinn ’86, director of athletics and former coach of the men’s lacrosse team (including three national championships), hosted a farewell gathering on Sunday at his home with his wife, Pamela Lawson Quinn ’88, and their two children. Speaking about Middlebury’s lacrosse alumni, the athletic director said there are “timeless themes that run through the men’s and women’s programs and across the generations,” and that “the conversation and celebration was most often about relationships and values.”

Yes, Quinn was speaking of lacrosse players, but at Homecoming 2011 the same could be said about the themes, relationships, and values cherished by almost every Middlebury graduate, student-athlete or not.