Ahhh it pains me that he has left for the day and we are still in a fight.  Is there a chance we can resolve this?  Can we be saved?  I’m going to bed to rest.  This is all-consuming and exhausting.  I will have the doorman tell him that I am in bed with a headache.  If he comes in to see how I am, to care for me, to make things right all will be well.