Day: December 3, 2013

I have found blogging books fun, especially the ones that you used to love but haven’t been able to read recently. There are some books in my life which I have read so many times that I know the plot inside out. In Middlebury, I haven’t had any time to read books for pleasure, so I wrote a list down of the books that I have read multiple times so I could review on them and learn from the main lessons again. It only takes a glance at the summary to bring all the old memories back. It is also fun to write about old memories (currently doing a piece on my old housemaster and have some other cool ideas).

Hope you guys aren’t too stressed out of the work load, we are almost there!

I had my first gig in two brothers tavern during halloween. I lucked out because the regular DJ couldn’t make it so the bar allowed me to spin for the night. I usually play house (tech, electro, deep, progressive) so I was very nervous when they asked me to play hip hop. I haven’t done much hip hop mixing before so obviously I was scared.

I found For One More Day engrossing. Even though I read it approximately a year ago, I still clearly remember the lessons it taught me. It was like every other Mitch Albom book I have read; it taught me important life lessons. Albom uses simple language to teach meaningful lessons.

 

This book is about Charley Benetto, a broken man living under alcohol. His life was full of regrets and eventually he tried to take his own life by drunk driving. He then became unconscious and started to hallucinate. He dreamt of spending one more day with his beloved mother and by the end of the dream his mother persuaded him to forgive himself. Afterwards he lived his life to the fullest and died with no regrets.

 

The life lessons of For One More Day us are truly intriguing. One of them is to appreciate what one has right now, and to also enjoy it. Albom always tells his readers this message. One doesn’t know how much that certain thing signified until that certain thing is out of one’s life. For Benetto, he didn’t know how much he loved his mother until she was gone. He regretted not being able to spend the last moments with her. However, he was lucky enough to spend one more day with his mother, and he gave himself a second chance in life. Appreciate what you have right now and truly treasure it in order to live your life to the fullest.

 

The other lesson taught by Albom is about accepting loves warm embrace, and sharing your heart and feelings with someone else. Doing this will make one a much more happier person. Benetto kept everyone away from his life and turned to alcohol. He tried to take his own life because he was so depressed and almost died from an accident. After forgiving himself, he decided to move next to his daughter and reconcile with his ex-wife, Catherine. He quit drinking and started to live a happy life.

 

Albom conveyed these life lessons well. Even though the language is simple and the sentences aren’t complicated, the reader still has to read every paragraph carefully in order to get the main message. This story seems random at first but after reading the whole book, everything comes together like pieces of an elaborate puzzle.

 

Albom choses to keep the reader guessing all the time in order to grab the reader’s attention. At the beginning, there isn’t concrete evidence that Benetto was in dream, even though Albom did make it clear that Benetto’s mother died. It compels the reader to guess whether Benetto was living, in heaven, or simply in a dream. Albom wants to grab the reader’s attention in order to let the reader think like Albom. This draws the reader in and also has the reader thinking more of the underlying message between the words.

 

I strongly recommend reading this book for people who are seeking to be happy. It is easy to read and hard to put down. I have become a new person after reading books by Albom and I try to live my life to the fullest. The lessons I learnt from Albom will be instilled in me whilst I live my Middlebury life.

Thanksgiving started out during fall in 1621, when Pilgrims and Native Americans gathered together to celebrate a successful harvest to thank everyone who had been involved. Our mentors and teachers also deserve a celebration; we need to be grateful of what they have done for us. My mentor is my godmother Karen. Even though I have only known her for a couple of years, she has already made a big difference in my life.

 

She is blunt and straightforward. She doesn’t just simply give her godson a present every year. She isn’t one to say sweet words when I am depressed. However, she does call me at least once a week to check in on me, letting me know that she cares. Her calls usually end with her criticizing me about what I have done wrong, which happens every week. Even though I get fed up with her efforts to teach me, at the end of the day I realize that she loves me and just genuinely wants me to be a more mature person.

 

In the summer of 2012, she helped me out of my misery by telling me not to ignore other people’s perspectives. It started out in January when I invited my best friend Charlie to Hong Kong. After all the anticipation build-up, he told me at the last minute that his parents wouldn’t give him the money for an air-ticket. I was furious because I have invited him to Hong Kong many times and every time there was an excuse, so I started to doubt our friendship. I blamed myself many times for wasting five years building this friendship so I started to ignore Charlie. Then, my godmother called me one day and I told her my story, expecting her to be sympathetic. However, instead of telling me how sorry she was for me, she scolded me and said I was being inconsiderate. I was annoyed at her for being so blunt but afterwards I did some self-reflection. Then I realized that talking to him would be the civilized thing to do. I approached him afterwards and we became friends again. If it weren’t for my godmother’s direct and harsh words, I would have never learned to think from other people’s perspective.

 

Also, she was the one who suggested that I take a gap year. A gap year is a big deal to everyone because it is the year to gain experience outside of school, and to take an early step forward in life. I thought she wanted to travel with me, so I was ecstatic about it; instead of us going trekking in the Andes or climbing Machu Picchu, she said I should gain work experience and improve my English before I go to Middlebury, but most importantly develop a better work ethic. I was reluctant to the idea at first but she absolutely forced me into it. Now, even though I still feel childish and unconfident at times, I still saw a lot of improvement in myself.

 

Although I have known her for only a couple of years, we have bonded through her genuine intentions. If it weren’t for her bluntness, I wouldn’t know the right thing to do. Even though she is neither intellectual nor polite, my mum thought that Karen should be my godmother because my mum understands that this is what I need to become a stronger person. For Thanksgiving, I would like to share a piece of my turkey with my godmother, for her fascinating ways of teaching me how to grow up.

I have many ideas for what to write in this blog. This gap year has been a big change for me; at least I am more aware of what goes around me. I understand my family, Hong Kong and myself better.  I have forgotten how vibrant Hong Kong could be as a city, yet how frustrating it could be.

 

There are so many reasons to love about Hong Kong. It has the best infrastructure in the world. It is hard to explain in words, but I am comfortable wherever I go in Hong Kong.

 

Everything just seems to be planned out. Hong Kong is prepared for whatever you want. I feel quite spoilt by Hong Kong because I feel it satisfies me in so many ways. Everything just seems to be there when I want it to be. I am going to list out of some of the major reasons of why I love Hong Kong so much, but everyday I keep finding new reasons to love Hong Kong.

 

All of my friends live in Hong Kong. Whenever we want to meet up, it is possible because Hong Kong is such a small city; everyone just seems to live beside each other. Friends are important in my life; I enjoy sharing my thoughts with them and listening to what they have to say. As Mitch Albom said, love is opening your heart to someone and listening to what they have to say; love is the only rational thing.

 

Public transport is amazingly convenient. As I mentioned just now, it just seems to work. Everywhere I go just seems to be on top of a MTR exit, so I actually travel more by MTR even though my mum allows me to use her driver. Even though the MTR doesn’t reach the Peak, bus service is so easy and accessible in Hong Kong that I could expect a Route 1 bus when I stand by the roads. Everything seems to be there at the right time; it’s inexplicable how convenient Hong Kong is.

 

I am lucky enough to live on the Peak so that I could see both sides of Hong Kong. Hong Kong is one of the leading financial centers in the world. At central, there are massive skyscrapers and a decent amount of traffic. Foreign people see Hong Kong this way. However, I live in the Peak, and I see a tranquil side of Hong Kong.

 

The only major thing I do not like and love about Hong Kong is that all my friends and acquaintances are around me. It gets tiring after a while, bumping into a friend or an acquaintance on the street, and then organizing for lunch. However, it is also not polite to reject them for a catch-up, putting one in a tough spot. It isn’t that I have some sort of hatred against all them; it is that I simply can’t spend too much time on socializing. I get fed up, occasionally angry when this happens and feel the need to leave Hong Kong.

 

Everything seems too redundant. I remember the times I was at Winchester when I craved just to be back at Hong Kong. Being at Hong Kong for the past six months, I realized that living in Hong Kong is not what I need. I need a balanced life; some time spent in quiet towns, and times spent in busy cities. Thinking about all of this, I recognized how lucky I am. My parents have given me the most comfortable environment to live in. It is time to appreciate all of this and take full advantage of it.

I read three articles written by Thomas Friedman and found them truly intriguing. Here are my thoughts and analysis.

 

We sometimes tend to get distracted by short-term concerns and forget about the essentials for the long run. Three of Thomas Friedman’s articles: Get it Right on Gas, The Virtual Middle Class Rises and How Mexico Got Back In the Game tell his readers not only to think in the short term, but also view the world in the long term.

 

Get it Right on Gas stresses the advantages of technology to extract gas efficiently and our priorities to invest in clean energy. Indeed, with the rapid development of technology, it is getting easier to extract clean natural gas. There are also massive amounts of gas locked away in shale deposits. Even though this energy is clean and could last people in the short term and middle term, it couldn’t last long because it is still a fossil fuel. Friedman says people shouldn’t forget about renewable energy and rely on natural gas. A certain amount of investment in renewable energy is still crucial. We should not wait until natural gas is depleted, and then search for other viable sources. Friedman focuses on natural gas as a reminder of long term planning.

 

Friedman also uses Mexico as an example of how people should look further ahead. How Mexico Got Back in the Game talks about the growth potential of Mexico, a country known for rampant crime and poverty. After the Mexican companies lost out to China in 1990’s, they did not give up. Now, they have 44 free trade agreements with countries all over the globe, more than two times that of China. Friedman thinks that Mexico’s economy is just starting to boom. He talks about how America is still focused on fighting in the Middle East and is ignorant about the $1.5 billion worth of trade with Mexico. If they focus solely on getting rid off Al Qaeda in the Middle East, they are only benefitting in the short term. However if the Americans concentrate on getting rid off Al Qaeda, they are missing out on a big opportunity on investing in Mexico. Friedman tells America not to be stubborn to focus on the short term but also to take long term into account.

 

Virtual Middle Class Rises also teaches us the same lesson. Friedman feels that people are underestimating how quickly technology is expanding, and how fast an undeveloped economy could grow. India’s lower class is now catching up with middle class due to cheap technology. India is giving benefits to the poor by using technology, for example electricity cards and safe drinking water. What people think of India now is a place full of crime. They are not aware that the lower class of India is slowly catching up with the middle class, and they will eventually have the same rights with the middle class. Friedman is telling his readers to respect these people now, because in the long term, these people will dominate the world.

 

The true message behind Friedman’s words is pretty harsh. Between his words, I believe Friedman is criticizing the American government for what they are doing. He is saying how narrow-minded the Americans are, and how deceived they are by technology. He hopes that American could change and not be so ignorant about everything. He writes these articles hoping to inform America what they are doing wrong. If he didn’t want America to become a better country, he wouldn’t be so critical.