Namaste

I am currently doing research on Nepal for two classes, and with every article I read I find that I stop and go back to my research log from Nepal to compare notes and argue aloud with the walls around me about what is being said. This is probably why I don’t study in coffee shops, Samson, or the library.

In the middle of reading and writing about challenges to peacebuilding in Nepal I am struck by the ease with which I can come up with a prescription for some issue that was encountered on the ground. Here you go, Nepal, I have something that will work. I laugh at myself, but the truth is there is a system in which the Nepalese are struggling to build and rebuild that does much the same thing. Here you go, Nepal, this should work, and if it doesn’t… the problem is probably that you were so recently fighting a war.

I would like to leave the millions of readers with a positive note, in the American style of presentation. There were many organizations that were impressive from the Jan Jagaran Youth Club in the Bara district that worked to bring school children of all castes together, the Fatima Foundation in Nepalgunj that works towards making Muslim women financially independent, the Saathi and Maiti organizations that combat human trafficking, and one of our favorites, the Three Sisters Adventure Trekking that provide women with an opportunity to change their world as well as tools to restructure the world that they live in. These are by no means a complete list of organizations that are affecting the peacebuilding process in Nepal in a positive way, but they are for me easily remembered when I get bogged down in the steep challenges that Nepal faces in moving towards sustainable peace.

Namaste.

the Himalayas

The root cause

Human trafficking is one of the challenges in Nepal. It has been estimated that one-third of victims of human trafficking is either born, reach, or sent through Asia. Mostly young poor girls who have no access to education tend to believe in the trafficker’s words, because they think that they find the paradise to take them away from current miserable life of poverty.

Girls in Nepal

How can we stop the chain of trafficking? It only can be achieved by working collectively among communities and establish a monitoring mechanism that the traffickers have no space commit crime.

Thinking about the victims still locked up and victims being rescued but struggling with the nightmares is heartbreaking. However, I cannot help myself thinking about the background of the traffickers. The fact that they had ruined the lives of small children cannot be forgiven, but does the problem of poverty lies in the traffickers as well? I might be biased, but I could not believe that all the traffickers involved in this huge industry abduct people in order to get some additional money. I assume that some of them who are in the bottom of the hierarchy of human trafficking industry have involuntarily be an accomplice in the crime. Where will be the safe place for them? It is very important for Nepal to strengthen the punishment for the perpetrator; however, the problem is undoubtedly rooted into poverty. Unless the government tackles with the problems of poverty in individual level, this remains as a game of cat and mouse.

 

A Whole New World

A dazzling place I never knew. But when I’m way up here, its crystal clear, that now I’m in a whole new world, with you.

Sound familiar? If you are anything like me and love Disney animated movies, Aladdin should be the first thing you think of.  The lyrics match the feelings we all had arriving in Nepal our first night. For all of us, this was the first time to this complex little country. The experience most definitely was dazzling.  And as we circled Mt Everest via Yetti Airlines it was most definitely clear that we were in a whole new world.

Everything about Nepal was new for me. The religions, the smells, the culture, the mountains, the villages, the list could go on. To be quite honest, without sounding incredibly cheesy or predictable, this experience was life changing.  While this song was our group ‘inside joke’ it is also very representative of my overall feelings towards the trip.  Bumpy, dusty, windy roads, long days and short nights, and any other at the time challenging experiences aside, this trip opened up a whole new world to me.  From being in a completely different region of the world I ever thought I’d be, to meeting incredible people and seeing incredible things-both uplifting and depressing-Nepal genuinely is a dazzling place I never knew.

Now that we are back and people ask how the trip went or what we learned.  These are very complex questions I feel. I learned a lot on this trip about myself, what I wanted to continue studying and sorting out through academics, and what I might want to do ‘when I grow up’ (although, lets be honest here, that isn’t 100% sorted out!).  One of the things we all learned in our short trip is that Nepal is a very complex little country with miles to go in its peacebuilding process. We are still debriefing, writing, and analyzing what we’ve learned, observed, and experienced in Nepal.  I am still struggling to sort out exactly what I want to say about Nepal, so the main thing I keep coming back to is the thought: “well I’ll just have to go back.”  It is too complex of a country to speak too soon, judge too soon, or put behind me just yet. Maybe if I put it in writing, on the internet it will happen, but I hope that I can go back to Nepal to continue to learn about its culture, people, troubles, and triumphs.  A country this beautiful and this complex is worth another trip.

I feel very fortunate to have been able to go on this adventure with my colleagues and Dr. Iyer. Thank you so much for the opportunity.  I hope to become much more familiar with this ‘new world’ in my future.

No Henna Quite Like This One

As we walked out of the Kumari’s house (the living godess others have written about) we ran into a little girl who asked Pushpa if she would like her to do henna for her.  This little girl was exactly what I needed to complete my trip.  She was so inquisitive of us, and we were curious about her. It was fun being on the other side of the interview for a few minutes! She wanted to know each of our names. Where were we from? Did Pushpa have any kids? Why were we in Nepal.  But we had even more questions for her. She was quite an articulate little girl.

She lived a bus ride away but comes into the tourist area of Kathmandu we were in to do henna to earn money for her school. Normally her mother does this for a living, but she was sick at the time and so she needed to be the one to come and raise the money.  We were so impressed with her English, which she learns in school.  She said her teachers enforce speaking English in the classroom.  We asked her how many other girls were in her class, by this time in the trip it was a standard question.  She said a few, but more boys.  She wasn’t just book smart though. She was very aware and quite tough. After she finished all our henna’s we each gave her money for her work, but by this point several men had started to move in towards us.  We urged her to put the money in her pocket quickly.  We got quite protective of her, or at least mentally I did.  Pushpa was great about telling the men to leave us be and giver her space.  But even with this show of strength, I was nervous for the girl. The little girl has clearly done this before though. She knew what she had to do. “Don’t worry if one of them tries to take my money I will scream for the police.” She knows how to take care of herself.

My Henna

This memory will stay with me for some time I think.  I am not 100% sure what exactly about it was so impacting.  I fell in love with her a little bit in those few moments. Like she was my own sister. She was intelligent, strong, funny, outgoing, talented (although she did my hand after a few others and I think was getting in a hurry so don’t judge too harshly by this pic! ha)…I can’t help but think this is exactly the type of girl Nepal needs to grow up and lead the country.  She is a great role model for other little girls, not just in Nepal but here too…if girls here could have met her. I hope she stays strong. I hope girls all over the world are able to stay strong, smart, outgoing, and able to lead, against all the trials life, cultures, societies, throw at girls.

Culture of corruption

Asian countries are often said that they have many commonalities. People are basically friendly and warm, and have deep connection between people with a strong sense of community. Since I am from Japan, I was comparing the characteristics of Nepal and Japan during my stay. One thing that came up as a similarity was the political corruption.

According to Transparency International the 2010 Corruption Perceptions Index, Nepal had the corruption rate of 2.2, on a scale from 10 (highly clean) to 0 (highly corrupt). Among the 178 countries in the survey, Nepal ranked as 146. We can clearly see that Nepal’s politics are far from being transparent. This rate can be given by analyzing the frequency and/or size of bribes, and for Japan, the rate was 7.8, ranked in 17th place. Seeing the figure, it may seem that corruption is not a big challenge for Japan, however, the corruption is endlessly broadcasted through media everyday and people cannot make a way out of it.

Corruption leads to people’s lack of interest in politics. What we saw in Nepal was the passiveness of people to participate in building positive peace on their soil. They were just waiting for a savior to come and take leadership to change everything for them. That culture of suppression completely supports corruption to remain.

I think one reason for this passiveness is from the quality of education. In Japan, we define our education as cramming education and we are not used to think critically or raise questions. I have no idea how much children in Nepal talk about their internal conflict in the school, but seeing the people that we met, I don’t think children are exposed to the failure and difficulties that the country is facing now. Nepali people just want to erase the past and keep going, not knowing that how fragile the peace they are now holding on to.

People can be called as politicians only by fighting with the absurdity of society. Fundamental standpoint of the politics is to extend the hand of relief to people who are suffering the most.

Vicious Cycle

Who in our group imagined that Nepal is a country full of garbage? Since I was only imagining Nepal as country surrounded by beautiful mountains, I was so shocked to see the reality. In the city of Kathmandu, you can see trashes everywhere, literally 360 degrees. On the sidewalk, on the river, under the bridges…

Why are the people so indifferent toward this situation? It is very interesting that even though people are so faithful believers, it seems like they don’t care about religious buildings covered with trash. Furthermore, despite their concern about purity/impurity because of the caste system, they don’t see the trash as the object of impunity. Impunity and insanitation are completely different concepts in Nepal.

Pollution can be seen not only in the capital but also in countryside. At the village we visited in Bara district, people lived beyond poverty level. Therefore most of the houses in the village were made of straw, and every household set an open fire in order to get warmth and to get rid of the garbage. Beautiful starry sky was vanished by the poisonous smoke, and we could barely breathe. First, I thought that the people were not aware of the health damage caused by smoke, however, making the matter worse, they were aware of it. They couldn’t help setting fire because there was no other option for them to survive cold nights. Sure enough, some of them were already ill, but they couldn’t afford to go to the hospital. I felt so bad seeing this, but at the same time I was objectively observing this circumstance that destroying the nature directly leads to the destruction of the human beings.

Straw used as bed

Pre-departure Thoughts

It’s been two month since we got back from Nepal. Two month of warm and sunny Californian weather and American food. I have to admit that we miss Nepal a lot, and every time I see Alex we are talking about our adventures there, challenges we got through together, bus rides, debrief sessions, when you don not know what to expect tomorrow.

As for me I am not only missing a country, but our team, as we all become really good friends. All challenges we got through together made us best friends. Frankly speaking, before coming to Nepal I expected that after one week of hard work, we would not even talk to each other. But it did not happen. We were constantly talking to each other, making jokes, sharing food and stories. We became even closer after one week of adventures. Even walking on campus we smile every time we meet.  Smile as now we have something in common. We have Nepal.

When I was applying for the Nepal J-term, I wrote that I see my life as a road full of challenges, and each challenge you coming through makes you stronger.Nepal was one of this challenges. However, as it appeared it was not just about getting stronger, but getting more aware. Aware about challenges Nepali people are facing, and about some strategies we can implement in order to help them.

Moreover, this J-term helped me to understand that I made a right choice, when decided to persuade my career in the field of conflict resolution.

 

Flexibility or Persistence?

Before visiting Nepal, I have decided to focus on my research topic as children, because if you foresee Nepal in 30 years time, the children will be the primary actors of the Peacebuilding process. I was determined to research specifically about the child war victims, such as former child soldiers or orphans, and wanted to see how Nepal tackles with their psychological wounds. I was expecting to visit many educational facilities and meet many children having problems, however, this did not happen.

In Nepal, trauma healing is one of the aspects that they haven’t started working on as a nation. They are concerned about gender disparities, domestic violence, human trafficking, corruption, education, impunity, but not about trauma healing. None of the organization spoke a word about “trauma” or “psychological disorder,” and it was so difficult for me to grasp the real situation. It nearly made me feel that maybe there is no trauma on children in Nepal after all.

Children Playing

For the first half of the trip, I was frustrated with the lack of information that I wanted. However, I started to think that if I continue to persist in this topic, I would lose this opportunity to learn other things. I acknowledged the importance of being flexible to the research topic if you were on the ground. But also there was a part of me saying that it is hard to change my research interests all of sudden,

because not getting much information about child soldiers/orphans doesn’t mean that the problem doesn’t exist.

As I was struggling, I was able to meet the organization that deals with children’s human rights, two days before leaving Nepal. It is the organization called CWIN (Child Workers In Nepal Concerned Center), which focuses on issues about child rights, child labors, trafficking, child abuse and children in armed conflict. It divides war-affected children in 3 categories, which are 1) Children who lost their parents during conflict, 2) Children injured during conflict, and 3) Children actually involved in the conflict. CWIN give these children psychosocial support such as counseling, and ultimately tries to reintegrate them into the community. This was the only organization that focused on psychological wounds of war victims, so the presence of CWIN meant a lot to me. Researching on the ground requires flexibility in topic, but at the same time, the persistence is also needed.

Believing in one’s possibilities

When I recall my experience in Nepal, the first thing that comes up to my mind is 3 Sisters Adventure Trekking. We met over 30 organizations during the 2-week visit and heard each of their goals and different approaches to fight against the injustice and to create peace in their country. However, 3 Sisters was the organization that inspired me the most. I have to admit that at first, I was not expecting high quality services from Nepali trekking company. But I was totally wrong, and there were many things that we have to learn from their commitment to service.

According to their definition, a guide refers to a person who can:

G-reets

U-nderstands

I-nforms

D-emonstrates

E-ntertains

They have a clear notion of how guide should act like, and I was so impressed when they mentioned “Entertaining” as an essential factor for a guide. I was surprised to see the thoughtfulness of the company that not only providing jobs to girls to make them self-independent, but also to give importance to the quality of the service they provide. If you only work for your own sake, it will limit your potential, because it is relatively easy to satisfy yourself. But on the other hand, if you work for the sake for the other people, there is no limit of satisfaction because you cannot control other’s satisfaction. This situation makes the guides to be more creative, more knowledgeable, and leads them to enhance their potential. All of the girls there were really having fun working there, because they think of their job as challenging but meaningful.

As a result, the company succeeded in gaining reputation among foreigners, and became one of the most famous trekking companies in Nepal. Yet, they are not content with their success, and striving for the empowerment of women. I saw many NGOs that works in wonderful projects with decent facilities to empower women, however, I did not see the high aspiration toward their goal as 3 Sisters did.

 

Why do we learn new language?

Under the internal conflict in Nepal, schools were used as weapons of war. School facilities were taken over by Maoists, and the role of the teachers became highly politicized. It was far from the place where you can hear the laughter of children.

 

When we visited Bara district, we were able to see one of the schools. It was a two-story building that the stairs were in dangerous condition that if a student step off the stairs, he would be hit onto the ground. All the classrooms were equipped with blackboards and table with chairs, which was better than my expectation. However, it was beyond satisfactory level. When we were walking around the school facilities, many people from the village including children gathered around us and stared at us. I was so curious to know what the children were seeing through us. Are they envisioning an ideal world though us? Or are they just seeing us as an object to make money from?

 

In the capital, Kathmandu, all the classes were taught in English, but on the other hand, all the subjects are taught in Nepali language in rural areas. This disconnection between the capital and the countryside create a huge gap in the quality of education. And this undoubtedly leads to the differences in numbers of jobs that they are qualified to attain. For example, if they can speak English, they can be hired in a tourism industry, which generates huge profit in the country.

In Kathmandu, I accosted by a boy who was selling jewelry. I was so surprised to hear his fluent Japanese, but seeing his eagerness to sell jewelries to me, I hesitated. Since I knew that Japanese is one of the main tourists who come to Nepal and spend lots of money there, I could not help myself feeling disappointed that his purpose of learning Japanese is just to get money. Of course I understand that he had to stand out among the great number of seller on the road, and I was sure that Japanese tourists would be attracted by his language ability and buy something from him.

However, this leads to my question of, “for what purpose do we learn”?